Walking In Both Worlds

Before you stop reading based on the title, let me define how I am using the word. To me, “the patriarchy” is a social system that has evolved over thousands of years. Most women are fully aware of the damage it has caused to women, but men don’t yet realize how it has fundamentally limited men. I am writing about how this system has hurt all humans.

Two days ago I started getting so many downloads, my thoughts feel all jumbled. I decided it is best to just send out the loudest thoughts, even thought they don’t really follow a cohesive stream. Sorry for the mess that follows. Hopefully, something will benefit you on your journey, or at least be fuel for contemplation.

For in depth, historical information on the patriarchy, I recommend “The Creation of the Patriarchy” by Gerda Learner. This is a scholarly text researched and written by an historian, not just an opinion. Over time, men have been reduced to money (inherited or earned), and women are responsible for everything else (having and raising children, keeping house, emotional needs of all in her home).

Only in the recent past (100-150 years) have women been allowed to own property, have a job, control their own money, and safely leave an abusive relationship. For the purpose of this post, I’m saying the women were finally allowed to have boundaries. This is still a new skill, and I know a few women who can’t bring themselves to leave a bad situation, but at least they know it won’t change and they will eventually have to leave.

Here is my concern for men – the concept of money is changing rapidly, and they generally don’t understand how to use boundaries. If a man (or anyone primarily living from masculine energy) has their sense of self tied -up in money, this isn’t going to end well. Who are you without money? Will gender roles still exist? Not in the old way. Boundaries are another matter. We all need boundaries.

Men have just never needed boundaries. Until quite recently, men were always at the top of the food chain, so the idea of boundaries never even came up. Having boundaries is about personal responsibility. If you set a boundary and someone else continually breaks it, it is not for them to change, it is for you to leave. Have a calm, adult conversation about how important the boundary is and how it was broken, but if it keeps happening, it’s on you to either change your expectations or leave. That’s the thing about taking responsibility for yourself – it is up to you to make the change, because it is your boundary.

The reason this is coming up now is that the patriarchy is well on its way out. In the old system, blame was the preferred way to deal with masculine unhappiness. I once overheard two men talking about the one guy’s bad attitude… “I’m not your mother, your wife, or your girlfriend, so don’t throw that attitude at me.” In my personal experience, this sums up how many men are taught to deal with their unhappiness. Some younger females are also starting to adopt blame in lieu of boundaries.

On a more esoteric level, we are each being guided to balance our inner feminine with our inner masculine. Our masculine side gives us drive, while our feminine side brings us direction. Many of us in the Western world are heavy on the masculine, myself included. Lately, I’ve been redefining my own inner energies… I feel like I do better if I consciously wait for the feminine to lead (intuition, my body), then support with the masculine (action). My old way feels like I am dragging myself though life. Play with that idea a bit.

I don’t know where we’re going, but I do know it won’t resemble the past. Keep an open mind, and remember that all resolution starts within. This is what we came for!

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November 2023 has been tough. Everyone I know has been wrestling with old demons. I really feel this is the dying gasp of said demons, but even that knowledge doesn’t make it less terrifying. I’m not usually swayed by fear, but “terrifying” is the best word I have. There have been some beautiful experiences also, but overall, November has been tough.

It reminds me of a student pilot on a solo cross-country flight – hours of boredom interspersed by moments of sheer terror. The silver lining is that all we need to do is get out of our story long enough to see the support we have. Everything that has gone wrong this month happened when someone was there to help. I could only see that support after I dried my eyes and took the time to notice. You have support – always remember that.

I am enjoying a wonderful audio book called “The Midnight Library” by Matt Haig. I recommend it to anyone who has ever dreamed of a different life. I’m pretty sure that’s all of us. Must be why it’s so popular. Not sure why that’s important to share, but someone needs it.

I’m feeling much better about December, though I couldn’t tell you why. Maybe we will finally have time to integrate all this incoming energy. I don’t know about you, but my nervous system is shot. Spending a few weeks watching Harry Potter movies and barely moving is sounding better all the time. Utilize downtime right now – your system is rebooting.

We have one more energy wave on the 25th and a full moon on the 28th, so we aren’t quite out of the woods yet. Life only makes sense in hindsight, and I’m quite certain this is all part of the plan. It’s totally okay for “the plan” to suck sometimes. Instead of resisting, try accepting the fear and disappointment. If you can step into observer mode you can let life be what it is, letting it ebb and flow. Everything is temporary. We can do this.

If this info is helpful, you can follow my blog (lower right side of page) to have posts delivered directly to your inbox. You may also enjoy my books, Waking Up Indigo, Walking In Both Worlds, and What’s Next, available at Amazon, both in paperback and on Kindle. Love donations welcome and appreciated via PayPal (donate button). Please feel free to share and re-post these writings… we are all just walking each other home.

November 2023 has been a hole in my radar all year, and now I understand why. Timelines are dissolving so quickly that most of us keep changing destinies several times each day. Feel like today is stable, then everything shifts a few hours later? Join the club. Ginger tea helps with the physical effects of so much movement.

I would love to tell you this will be over soon, but It will take all of November to move us all to our highest timeline. While this is only three weeks it can feel like years, because we are processing so much information ever hour. If you are having a bad hour, remind yourself everything is about to change (again). “Our highest timeline” is still somewhat individual, meaning that while the collective is moving in the right direction, some are moving faster than others.

All we can really do is breathe through this process. Take November one breath at a time. Stay curious about who you will be next. Learn from the parts of yourself you are happy to release. Fall in love with the higher aspects of yourself. Most of all, keep breathing. Inhale and exhale, learn and release.

Listen to your body. Spend time in nature. This is a natural process that the body is built for, we just need to get our minds out of the way. We are returning to our natural rhythms, so this is the ideal time to communicate with your own body. Ask your body what it needs, and then do it. Relationships are built on consistency and trust. Trust your own nature.

If you are concerned about the world stage, please don’t be. Things are going to shift so many times before 2024, it will only be confusing to attempt following a story line. Peace spreads from within. Make peace with your own body, and see what happens. We got this!

If this info is helpful, you can follow my blog (lower right side of page) to have posts delivered directly to your inbox. You may also enjoy my books, Waking Up Indigo, Walking In Both Worlds, and What’s Next, available at Amazon, both in paperback and on Kindle. Love donations welcome and appreciated via PayPal (donate button). Please feel free to share and re-post these writings… we are all just walking each other home.

I love to watch astrology updates from Pam Gregory, like this one on the eclipse tomorrow. Pam talks about the appropriate response to all the upheaval on the world stage – “Oh look, it’s another big, scary thing.” It seemed like Friday, October 13 was a good time to talk about scary things.

Someone I used to follow (Lisa Brown, maybe) mentioned a life-changing truth… If it isn’t happening in your direct reality, it isn’t part of your timeline. There are no truer words. Look at that again: If it isn’t happening in your direct reality (your personal life), it isn’t yours to change. Combine that with the teaching, “Where attention goes, energy flows.” What are you empowering with your attention?

I completely understand that news and social media make everything we look at seem like part of our personal reality, but it isn’t. It’s a really good time to leave social media, and only read headline news, like 1440. I also know there is a segment of the spiritual community that believes you are lacking compassion if you aren’t an emotional mess when others are suffering, which is completely backwards. The energy you send out into the world is what counts. Are you sending anxiety, or peace? You can’t feel one, and send the other.

True compassion is the person holding the warm towel to dry you after falling in the river, not the person jumping in (who can’t swim) to drown with you. The latter is just a display of codependency. Compassion is considerably more difficult. It’s tough to watch people make choices that will bring them pain, when all you can do is observe and be there with an open heart when they emerge from the chaos. Compassion requires you to be strong enough to let people have their experiences, without dissolving into an emotional mud puddle. Compassion takes practice and focus. The only way to maintain an open and compassionate heart is to emotionally remove yourself from other people’s lessons. Be an observer, and send the peace you feel.

When I was about six, I remember thinking how amazing it was that people had so much compassion for each other. I even thought, I hope I get to learn that while I’m here. I had no idea what I was in for. I have always seen down timelines, a tool I thought was available to all, which left me wondering, can’t they see where this is going? Apparently not. And it’s really hard to watch those you love run head-long into a brick wall. No one listens to my warnings. In fact, my warnings are either completely ignored, or I am accused of being unsupportive and judgemental. Life wants to be witnessed, not fixed.

I still share what I see, but I’m no longer trying to prevent pain. Our greatest personal expansions come from the pain of our “worst” decisions. So, I will share that we won’t be having another nuclear war, or a fake (or real) alien invasion, just in case this info reaches eyes that can see and ears that can hear. Both of those scenarios were on expired timelines. There will still be lots of scary things happening, so now is a good time to really understand the energy you’re putting into the mix. Be peace, and share it. Be joy, and share it. You are totally allowed to curl into a ball and cry, but don’t stay there. Focus your attention on what you want the world to become, not the scary things.

If this info is helpful, you can follow my blog (lower right side of page) to have posts delivered directly to your inbox. You may also enjoy my books, Waking Up Indigo, Walking In Both Worlds, and What’s Next, available at Amazon, both in paperback and on Kindle. Love donations welcome and appreciated via PayPal (donate button). Please feel free to share and re-post these writings… we are all just walking each other home.

Most spiritual types say the most important relationship is with your soul, but I disagree. Your relationship with your soul is a given, because your soul, and Higher Self, are simply other parts of you. You will never lose touch with them, in this life or the next, regardless of whether or not you can communicate consciously with them. Your most important relationship is with your body. The body is playing host to your Higher Mind. Are you a good guest?

The ego mind is simply an interface. It allows us to have a physical experience, while still being open to the Higher Mind. The ego is essential and totally misunderstood, but it should never be in charge. Mentally, the ego is like a toddler – prone to fits, demanding its own way, and trying to get into everything, even at physical risk. Toddlers and egos need supervision and guidance. Both need direction, without abuse.

The problem our society has come to is simply that we encourage the ego-self to set the course. This situation is harmful to all involved, including the ego. The body is of nature, the Higher Mind is of Spirit, and the ego is only here as an interface. The body (nature) is suffering the most in this ego-driven world.

As an example most are familiar with, lets look at alcohol. We are told that alcohol consumption is normal. Every movie and television show I can think of includes drinking, especially if the character is wealthy or having fun. The ego loves money and fun, so it keeps this story. Meanwhile, the body suffers with every drink. Alcohol causes 2.8 million deaths per year worldwide. To put that in perspective, Covid killed 1.8 million worldwide in 2020. In a world of 8 billion people those numbers aren’t big. I’m more concerned here with quality of life issues.

The feeling of happiness has been tied to the gut microbiome. Alcohol consumption is harmful to the microbiome. Many are trading a fleeting hit of dopamine for long-term lower happiness. The ego just believes whatever story is most fun at the time, so our Higher Mind is required to discern what’s best for the health of our host body.

Life Hack – take the next six months to drop all alcohol, smoking, and optional drugs (including marijuana), and truly build a relationship with your body. Talk to your body, and let it know you are listening. Treat it as you would a generous host, because that’s what it is. Give your body love, support, and attention. This will be a game-changer.

The relationship with your body is the primary relationship that all other relationships spring from. Do you take your body for granted? However you treat your body, you will either express or receive the same thing in other relationships. If your relationship with your body is lacking in any way, reality will keep bringing that lack to your door, until you shift. We are all mirrors for each other.

The human superpower is to combine heaven and earth, Spirit and Body. Don’t give away half your power by taking your body for granted. On top of that, the physical experience is much more enjoyable working with your body, rather than against it.

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There are many things happening this week to prepare for the September equinox of 2023. There is a huge frequency shift inbound, and people are generally concerned about the inevitable changes, or concerned they will miss the boat. I wish to offer a third option – drop the concern. You are right where you need to be, and everyone will make the level of shift they can handle.

I had a couple significant reminders last week. I distinctly heard, “It’s not the players, it’s the feeling.” This was followed by Infinite Shift posting a video about basically the same thing. The lesson I took was to concentrate on the feeling of love and support, without attaching it to certain people or circumstances. Attachment isn’t really love, and is always based in a fear of loss. This is an old teaching, but I needed the reminder. Detaching frees all of us to walk our own path, while attracting that energy to my individual life, no matter the how or who.

I’m going into this massive shift with my heart open, and a soft focus on the feelings of love and mutual support. I say “soft focus” to differentiate it from the intensity of strength of will. This isn’t the time for will-based determination. Effort definitely has its place, but this isn’t it. This feels more like relaxing into a soft chair with a cozy blanket. Wrapping myself in the feeling of love and support a few times throughout my day has already improved my outlook.

What are you focusing on? Are you focusing on what you want, or what you are afraid to lose? If we can truly accept our worst fears, then they are neutralized. Emotion is our attractor field, and either love of, or fear of, an outcome give it an emotional charge. What triggers your emotions, and why? Many of us who have been doing inner work for some time no longer have those sharp spikes of emotion. Still, it’s always good to double-check your focus.

If you find any sharp edges, work on them gently, with love. Another ancient teaching that still stands true – we can only give to others what we give to ourselves (the outer will reflect the inner). I had a friend who used to say that I should never tell people that love comes from within, because she felt her lack of self-love made it impossible to find a partner. That isn’t it at all. You can always find a partner that will love you exactly as much as you love you. As your self-love grows, either the dynamic will shift, or a new partner will arrive. How does this work for over-givers? Once they love themselves enough, boundaries seem like a good idea. Everything starts with how you treat you.

I feel like the next six months are going to be the practice time for creating through the attractor field – the new manifestation. This training will continue until the equinox in March 2024, when we have another big jump. Again, this will move people exactly as much as their minds and bodies can handle, no more. Some will just start their awakening journey, while others prepare to embody the lightbody. Everything is moving in the same direction at this point, with as much grace and ease as possible.

Motivation matters. Running away from something is completely different than running toward something. Soften your focus, and go with the feelings of love and peace. May all goodness come to you with grace and ease.

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Who else feels like a completely different person? Even my worldly concerns from just a few weeks ago make no sense to me now. I like this new version of me!

Some of my former soul tribe is moving closer, while other are going on their own adventure. Will we meet up again in this life? Not sure. The impressive part is that the thought of my tribe dispersing isn’t even bothering me, let alone triggering abandonment and fear. The mental knowledge that we each have our own path seems to have finally settled into my body. Embodiment is everything. I’m not doing anything different, so it must just be divine timing.

Epiphanies have been falling out of the sky. One of my favorites has been, “It’s not the players, it’s the feeling.” This gives me (and my tribe) room to step away from codependency while knowing that focusing on the feeling of tribe will bring in new people who are ready for the awareness and community I feel in my future. I no longer feel like I need to wait for other people to be ready. This feels like I have been given the green light to go as fast as I want. Exciting! Not sure how this will look in my life, but it feels fantastic.

With this new freedom to move at our own speed, I have to think the 3D world is going to implode pretty quickly. Most people reading this have been ready for a world reboot for several years now. Well, here it comes! Nothing to fear, the new structures have been quietly building for quite some time, ignored by the media. While there will be some public display (media) of the tragedy of it all, there will be a large group ready to just walk away from the old and start something new.

Some old players will change from the inside and stay at their post, while some will just leave making room for more resonant new players. This will happen both personally and collectively. We are entering a period of sovereignty and personal accountability. This is the dying gasp of victim mentality. Blame and division will become harder and more painful as time goes on. Everything is a choice, even when that’s really hard to see. Always look for the choices, and change your choice if it no longer fits your world.

This is what we came for. I get chills just writing that! Here we go… Always remember you are not alone, and fully supported on your journey. Things are moving quickly – finally! We got this!

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Fear isn’t usually my thing. I usually default to anger when my frequency drops. Anger is activating, but fear is paralyzing. This Lion’s Gate (8/8) seems to have opened a cesspool of ancestral survival fear. I have never before felt the levels of fear and anxiety that have been present this week. Proof that it isn’t personal.

Just like all things, the old must go to make way for the new. We are rapidly heading to a world without fear, so fear must leave. Many of us get to feel it go. Not much fun, and it’s departure is like drinking from a fire hose. It’s a sign that we are moving quickly, but it sure is a lot to transmute. I feel you. It really will be okay.

Adding to the stress is the loss of linear time. Always living in the present is great when the present is joyful, but even though it has only been a few days, this fearful present has felt like forever. Good reminder to journal, or at least keep track of dates. This, too, shall pass. Maybe like a kidney stone, but it will pass.

Let’s talk about coping mechanisms. These have been helpful for me:

Ask for help – your unseen team is very present and happy to help.
Phone a friend – Any conversation with another human takes me out of my own world. Text and email aren’t as helpful as voice contact.
Checking out – Not with drugs or alcohol, but using movies, audio books, or TV to find a new story, if only for a couple hours. Comedy is best.
Time with nature – Walking outside, time in your garden, or even just looking at the natural world is very calming. I sit with nature a couple times a day.
Mix up routine – Throw off your routine by singing a song, dancing around the kitchen, or drawing a picture. Spontaneous acts of joy always move energy.

Do whatever you can to shake off the funk, and choose to keep your vibe high. It may only last a few minutes at a time, but your effort is noted. Try to let this fear-wave pass over you, without making it personal. This isn’t yours. Clearing collective fear is a huge step forward, even if it’s uncomfortable right now.

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Do you feel the change? It’s almost like waking from a dream to a whole new world. Where am I? Who am I? What was I thinking that got me here? Unlike the uncomfortable changes we’ve experienced before, this change just feels right. Go with what feels right, not the plans you had. Plans are mental, but joy is felt in the body. Everything is new, and we are (finally!) on a proper collective timeline.

I am craving different food, thinking different thoughts, and feeling better physically than I have in years. When I look around at nature, everything seems to be breathing, as if for the first time in a very long time. Animals are much more telepathic, and quite clear about their needs. Even the water has been quite expressive, and I have never had much connection to the elemental realm before now.

Speaking of water, it is bound to be at the forefront of the future. With Pluto entering Aquarius (sign of the water bearer), all the wrongs done to water are bound to come up for adjustment. I highly recommend the work of Veda Austin to get a look into our future relationship with water. Symbolically, water represents emotion. It’s a great time to clear out the emotional closet.

All our thoughts about personal and collective priorities will be shifting drastically this month, as is required by our new trajectory. This will mean much change. Again, these changes will feel right, meaning this new road will feel supported, happy, and free. If one path feels joyful, while another is frightening, always choose joy. We are collectively moving away from fear. Go humanity! If you can’t see how to get from fear to joy, then delegate. Your invisible team is closer than ever before, and happy to help. “Hey guys, I want to move to the joyful path, but I need your help to find my way. Please give me clear signs.”

If I’m honest, July just hurt. I spent most of the month completely exhausted. August feels amazing. That shift happened for me around July 28. We are all living in our own timing, so you may be ahead of me or behind me. No one has missed the ascension boat, and everything is going even better than planned. If the amazing-ness hasn’t found you yet, it’s coming. No worries. The only part free will plays at this point is to either jump on board this new experience, or cling to our old ideas and be dragged. Clinging brings suffering, and suffering is optional. Don’t fight reality.

It is best to be an impartial observer when looking at the world stage, especially for the remainder of 2023. Changing your personal path may require a leap of faith, but changing the collective path will likely require the old structures to completely crumble, in order for the new to even be considered. Where there is an opening for the new, a smoother transition can be made. Either way, evolution always wins, and Gaia is well on her evolutionary path.

Let your priorities change. Reexamine your ideas of what happiness is, and how to find it. Be open to the answers, you may surprise yourself. This is where it gets exciting!

If this info is helpful, you can follow my blog (lower right side of page) to have posts delivered directly to your inbox. You may also enjoy my books, Waking Up Indigo, Walking In Both Worlds, and What’s Next, available at Amazon, both in paperback and on Kindle. Love donations welcome and appreciated via PayPal (donate button). Please feel free to share and re-post these writings… we are all just walking each other home.

All my invisible team has been saying for a week now is, “Hang on!” It doesn’t feel like a scary thing, more like a speed thing. Now that the world has turned up-side-right again we can finally gain some traction on building New Earth. Does this mean all is going according to plan? Yes, even better than expected. Does this mean the 3D world stage will calm down? The opposite – 3D will collapse quickly. Let it go.

I think it’s important to note that “the elite” have turned things upside down in the past, to maintain control over humanity. A very small group of humans had non-human assistance to exert control and extract fear, a potent human emotion. That non-human influence is now gone, but their human followers aren’t yet aware of what this means. Now that the world is back on track, “they” are, quite unknowingly, working for team awakening.

I say this not to divide, but to comfort. The old tricks are still being played, but they now have the opposite affect. You aren’t crazy, or lacking in unity consciousness, just because you’ve noticed. Even the words that have been used are the same as the higher vibe crowd, except the meaning has been twisted.

I had “we’re all in this together” on my website years before it was co-opted. I named the forecast for 2022 “the great reset” before I knew that term was being used for a push toward one world government. Even the idea of one government is completely different in the context of intergalactic membership and cooperation. My point is simply that things are no longer upside-down. At this point, anyone building a cage for humanity is only constructing their own prison. It’s safe to leave fear, and just send compassion to those misguided souls. They are going to need it.

Most of us are much less tied to narratives. Even so, be prepared to have things reveled that you really weren’t planning on. It is best to laugh and let it go. “I actually believed that? Hilarious!” New information can either soften you or harden you. Hardening in the face of new information just indicates an ego attachment to the old. Hardness is part of what is going away. The next twenty years are based on fluidity, so we can catch up to where we need to be, as a species. Theories will come and go rapidly, while “facts” will be scarce due to the leaps we will be making. Let your mind expand.

The true plan for humanity is in full swing. The groundwork for New Earth is already here in the physical, so even if the road is temporarily bumpy, humanity is now free and on the right track. The best thing you can do for this process is to avoid fear and focus on expansive gratitude. If watching the news or social media evokes fear or anger for you, now is a great time to step away from them for a couple months. We got this!

If this info is helpful, you can follow my blog (lower right side of page) to have posts delivered directly to your inbox. You may also enjoy my books, Waking Up Indigo, Walking In Both Worlds, and What’s Next, available at Amazon, both in paperback and on Kindle. Love donations welcome and appreciated via PayPal (donate button). Please feel free to share and re-post these writings… we are all just walking each other home.